13 July 2008
10 July 2008
Long Weekend
Made umpteen changes to vacation plan and finally chose a nice place nearby - check
Had a mokkai dinner with all friends - check
Realizing how we are still the same old person among our old friends - check
Get stuck in holiday traffic - check
Using the phone like A walkie-talkie with OVER at the end of every sentence while coordinating travel between 2 cars- check
Swimmers swimming at Lake Tahoe - Check Getting wrong food than ordered at restaurant - Check
Sitting at beach in evening sun continue mokkai - Check
Waiting for salad dinner over an hour at Gar Woods grill (Rachel Ray's favi) - check
Trying to get a glimpse of fireworks and driving into Coast Guard Area unknowingly- check Teaching Poker and Playing until 2 am with mokkais - check
Lying on beach with no sun block lotion and getting sun burns - check
Friends having fun with Kayaks - Check

Window shopping - Check
Having Good food at Local restaurants - check
Teasing a friend who was always hungry - Check
All gals in a car drive- check
Gambling at Reno and making $70 - Check
Late yet surprisingly tasty dinner at Casino - Check
Surprise party with friends at home- Check

Group photos - Check
Group collegians photos- Check
Boring Param with our college stories - Check
Having breakfast at local bagel shop with smoothies on the house- Check
Speed boat ride across the lake - check
Giving titanic poses - Check
An over enthu friend pestering everyone for photos- check
Broken car A/C in sweltering summer & traffic - Check
Trying to pass the snacks to gang in the other car on freeway - Check
Friends fooling us that they were ahead of us and we chasing them while they were actually behind us on freeway- Check
Muniyandi vilas dinner where non vegetarians had their night - Check
SFO tour in 3 hrs - Check
Clicked Lombard street with different cameras- Check

Grabbing to go dinner from Udupi restaurant - Check
Transferring photos and making CD copies in 10 min - Check
Dropping friends at airport and waving sad Good byes- Done
All in all had a nice memorable weekend along
with Losing a thing close to heart - Did not want to check but happened
30 June 2008
Books again
As I rode upward I reflected on my life, back to all points, my childhood, my early races,my illness and how it changed me. Maybe it was the primitive act of climbing that made me confront the issues I'd been evading for weeks. It was time to quit stalling. I realized. Move I told myself. If you can still move,you aren't sick...I was meant for a long,hard climb...
17 June 2008
Life is good..
14 June 2008
Tid bits !!
Last week was my birthday. I always like the month of June, with schools reopening and already half a year is over. But also for the fact that it has my birthday :-) My friends and family always make it a special day :-) My sister sent a cute presentation with my old photos from '81 -'08. I was so happy :-) The next day we met a bunch of my college friends. After watching a movie, we had dinner at Banana Leaf (Malaysian restaurant). There I had a surprise b’day cake (from friends & Param). It is a very nice feeling to be loved :-) I am very happy I got to hang out regularly with my college friends at least after a few years. It is good fun and I am sure I will miss them next year.
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Convertible கனவுகள்
From childhood whenever I see films with open cars, I used to dream about driving them one day. And when I was here, where we can rent any cars, I kept on pestering Param to rent a convertible one day :-)
And at my last job, knowing this, my team lead once gave me a ride in BMW Z4. It was a good experience with 2 girls in convertible, giggling and felt like cinema to me :-)
And today, I got a chance to drive a convertible on a super sunny day....
Glad One of my kutti kutti aasai has come true!!
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Now-a-days , they have quite a few costume days at my office -> Nice dress up day, Hawaii day, and today Shorts day...Cool to come to office in various colors and theme!!
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07 June 2008
Why do I blog?
I was trying to remember "Why did I start to write?”. It was mainly because I had ample time at home after marriage and I wanted to use it to improve my writing skills. Then I thought I should somewhere log my days. I used to write personal diary @ college but somehow discontinued it after college days. Thus, my blog tend to be more of an open diary. A nice friend of mine even advised me not to write so much in public. He fears it might somehow become my disadvantage one day. But I try to convince him the other way. In retrospect, I feel I chose to record all nice happy memories during these days rather than the sad & angry memories!
Days went on and friends started reading. Ex-colleagues started reading. Old college friends started reading. Then my family folks started reading. I am glad I chose this place only to record happy memories for my small world to read :-)
03 June 2008
Does it count for short story?
She was in her office attending 2 hour meeting. The last lindt chocolate was on the table tempting her. She knew she already ate a big share that day. But still she could not concentrate on her meeting.
All her concentration was on the small truffle wrapped in a white foil, smiling at her. She knew she had to work-out & burn 200 calories if she is going to eat it. She knew her friends & families are asking her to loose some weight. The meeting was over. The chocolate was still begging her to eat it. Though she only had salad for lunch, she ate that last chocolate without any further thought!
When will women stop feeling guilty about eating a chocolate?
24 May 2008
Birthday time :-)
This year, I fast-forwarded his birthday 2 days so that we can celebrate with my amma and sister before they return back to India. With my new cake decorating skills, I grew in confidence to bake a 3D cake...As car is one of his favorite items, I chose a 3D cruiser cake.
I baked the cake day before yesterday. Since the cake was big, it took around 1 hour to bake and more than 5 hours to cool! Yesterday morning, it took 2 hours for me to decorate it with home-made icing...Thats the cake below.
The cream was real yummy and everyone loved it :-) We all had a fun evening yesterday
In retrospect, I should have made a red car for him as he is a Ferrari supporter. Anyway, I tried out my favi color :-)
Happy birthday Dear Param :-)
19 May 2008
Family Fun trip :-)
All in all,
- We enjoyed watching Shamu @ Sea world.
- My mother & sis did a lot of thrilling rides.
- We went on safari at Animal park and fed giraffes.
- Everybody had their dream day at Disneyland,LA and an easy day at Universal, LA
- We enjoyed fabulous Vegas- took lots of pics.
- We were amazed by Hoover dam - one of 7 engineering wonders.
- Spell bound by sun rise @
Grand Canyon, thrilled by Helicopter ride over the canyon and mesmerized by the IMAX movie there.
- Enjoyed American/Continental breakfast on all 10 days and I was very happy to see my mother and sis enjoying it as well (Denny's & IHOP were memorable).
- Had a tasty dinner at Woodlands,LA and sumptuous dinner at Tamba, LV.
- We did a lot of chit-chat
during our road trip
- Enjoyed ice cream, candy, juices & cotton candy.
- Had a great road trip across lonely hills & desert like terrains of Nevada and Arizona.
- Took tons of lovely family pictures during the trip
These days will stay in my diary forever :-)
06 May 2008
Super Busy days
The next few days, we did pretty much nothing as they had jet lag... Anyway, after the couple of days, we took them to a Mexican Restaurant and they seem to enjoy the food (to my surprise) as they said Mexican is good :-) My mother has even become a fan of Star bucks! Then came the weekend and we went on a trip to do white-water rafting. The whole gang (9 ppl) drove up to South Fork American river @ Coloma, CA. We had a sumptuous picnic lunch under the shades of trees while chatting/pulling each other's legs...Was great fun (Will post the rafting pictures soon when we get it from the photographer).
Then the gang set out for the river rafting while I gave company to my parents. My sis was all excited to try it and so was Param. I am sure they had super fun in the water, while we 3 gossiped family stories sitting on a bench and had the whole park for ourselves.. After rafting we headed back and had a good dinner at Krung Thai restaurant (2 hours) ;-) My parents seemed to be able to try it as well (surprise, surprise!!).The whole trip was quite memorable for me , with great company and Saturday ended with most of us tired/sore for different reasons...:-)
27 April 2008
Tag from NY girl :-)
Billa..did not like it so much.
What Book Are You Reading?
Pastries.
A Favourite Board Game?
Trade while in school days and now Scrabble and Chess .
Favourite Magazine?
I don't read anything regularly..I need to work on this soon.
Favourite Smells?
Smell of Rasam on the stove, Jasmine flower, Ripen mango, jackfruit smell.
Favourite Sound?
Mouna Raagam BGM.
Worst Feeling In The World?
When I could not do what I had promised earlier.
What Is The First Thing You Think Of When You Wake?
I need a coffee.
Favourite Fast Food Place?
Adyar Ananda Bhavan for me.
Future Child’s Name?
I haven't decided yet.
Finish This Statement: If I Had A Lot of Money, I’d…
Celebrate first and then decide
Do You Drive Fast?
Only when I am late to office meetings at 8 am
Do You Sleep With A Stuffed Animal?
NO..
Storms– cool or scary?
Cool, A nice blanket around, Cup of tea and bajji, few good friends and card game.
Scary If I am driving.
Do You Eat The Stems on Broccoli?
Why not?
If You Could Dye Your Hair Any Colour, What Would Be Your Choice?
Brown may be, actually I do not like to dye my hair.
Name All The Different Cities/Towns You’ve Lived In.
Bombay,Tiruchi,Tirunelveli,Sivakasi,Chennai,New Jersey, Cupertino.
Favourite Sports To Watch:
Nothing as of now
One Nice Thing About The Person Who Sent This To You:
I love her passion for good film making.
What’s Under Your Bed?
Nothing.
Would You Like To Be Born As Yourself Again?
Sure...Yes
Morning Person or Night Owl?
Night Owl.
Over Easy or Sunny Side Up?
I don't know.
Favourite Place To Relax?
Home.
Favourite Pie?
Cakes please.
Favourite Ice-Cream Flavour?
Dulce-di-liche and Arun Pistachio,Tutty fruity.
You Pass This Tag To–
Any one who wants to write a tag.
Of All The People You Tagged, Who’s Most Likely To Respond First?
I don't know!!
24 April 2008
They will be here next week !!!
All my friends around me would have already known my excitement, but writing it in my blog is always a special thing to me....08 April 2008
Dec 2006 ->July 2007->January 2008->Now
Running->Tennis ->Poker-> Chess
We have started playing chess now. Few weeks back we got a chess board and now playing one game of chess is the last thing we do before we sleep. I have to say Its very refreshing. All I do now is trying to learn all tactics of the game and beat Param. That's the goal of the month :-)
06 April 2008
01 April 2008
31 March 2008
Cake class - Finale
20 March 2008
B&W memories :-)


Aren't we cute when we are kids? :-)
Now coming to tag, all that comes to my mind are:
We both are Gemini.
Our names match with Hindu God and Goddess pair, coincidentally.
We both studied at Trichi.
Anyway as destined to meet, we met and got married in Sep 2005 A.D.
Whoever is reading this tag, please do it as well and post both you and your better half's childhood pics....It is interesting to play :-)
17 March 2008
14 March 2008
To a great friend...
இருவரும் வேறு வேறு இடத்தில் பிறந்தோம்
கலாச்சாரம் வேறு குடும்பம் வேறு
ஆசைகள் வேறு குணங்கள் வேறு
எங்கேயோ பிறந்து எங்கேயோ சந்தித்தோம்
வார்த்தை பரிமாறுதலில் ஆரம்பித்த நட்பு
வாழ்கையை பற்றி பேசும் வரை நீண்டுது
கற்று கொண்டது பல பல
வார்த்தையில் எழுத தெரியவில்லை
இன்றும் நீங்கள் என்னிடம் பேசியதும்
நான் உங்களிடும் பேசியதும்
நமக்கு மட்டுமே தெரிந்த ரகசியங்கள்
இப்பொழுது பிரிந்தாலும்
மீண்டும் சந்திப்போம்
சில வருடங்களில் :-)
The above are straight from my heart to a friend who is returning back home.She is a great inspiration for me and We had good time together at NYC.
Dedicated to our good friendship and Probably she cannot read Tamil :-)
10 March 2008
My killer cake !
08 March 2008
My favourite vegetable manchurian
What do I want to become?
When I came to US, I started using CNET and liked their reveiws...I even thought about applying for a job to become a phone reviewer ... Something in me told me to give it a shot...I still haven't figured out my first steps for applying or what they look for (in qualifications/experience). Yes, I didn't apply at all.
Nowadays I am impressed by HR dept colleagues :-) I like their busy schedule arranging travel, arranging facilities, arranging business cards, making hotel reservations and helping others.
So my career interest has changed from teacher->reviewer->HR while I am an Engineer ;-) How does that sound? I am still trying to figure out what I want to become!
07 March 2008
Life in fact has free lunches :-)
Once I reached my office, I realized I had left my lunch bag at home! I was totally irritated as we don't have a cafeteria at our office. Now if I have to eat lunch, I have to go out which I don’t like as restaurants are not very near.
But I was surprised to see an email from one my colleagues that he had won a free lunch at a Mexican restaurant (after having our team name on the raffle) and so our entire team get a free lunch!! I was happy to see veggie burritos in his order ;-) So I got my veggie burrito lunch with coke & dessert.
Sometimes, there are free lunches in life !
03 March 2008
From seeds to flowers
27 February 2008
Tagged by a friend :-)
A - Available?: Just for a good talk :-)
B-Best friend: With few friends, I am really who I am, Don't want to list it here :-)
C-Cake or Pie?: Always Plum cake
Drink of choice: Hot coffee, but lately Frappucino
E- Essential thing used everyday: My Sony VAIO
F- Favourite colour: Blue and Black
G- Gummy bears or worms: Definitely Gummy bears all the time
H- Hometown: Halwakku famous Tirunelveli
Indulgence: Earrings and Chocolate Truffles
J-January or February: January for a fresh start
K-Kids and names: None, I haven't really thought about the names, but surely it will be a Tamil name.
L-Life: Life gives you an interesting twist always
M-Marriage date: September 5, 2005
N-Number of siblings:Younger naughty sis
Oranges or apples:Tangerine Oranges Please
P-Phobias: Sea/Swimming
Quote:Nothing is constant except change.
R-Reason to smile: Nice gestures from Param
S-Season: July-August in Tirunelveli due to Courtalam season..Ah,I love it :-)
T-Tag two people: Baru and Mohan
U-Unknown fact about me:I can get really quirky sometimes
V-Vegetable you do not like:Bitter gourd
W-Worst habit:Getting Angry for small reasons
X-x-rays you have had:Tooth
Y-Your favorite food:Always amma's idli and chutney, maggi noodles,panju mittai
26 February 2008
Compliments
22 February 2008
Today.....
19 February 2008
Here and There
Spontaneous road trips are always interesting. Without much planning, we did a 1 day ski trip this weekend to Alpine meadows with my friends. It was really enjoyable though I did not ski ;-) Param was in full enthusiasm to learn ski. Since we went late to ski lessons, we could not join the class. We searched for instructor for more than an hour and so i did not want to ski until I get full lesson . Somehow Param & co caught an instructor for 10 minutes to learn the basics and even managed to use the lift once. Maybe I'll also do it next time...Talking old stories with college friends is always fun. We had good brunch and nice dinner and Talk, Talk, Talk.... What more could I ask for?

image source: cartoonstock.com
And to top it off, my best friend from college has come to US and I was happily surprised when she called me…Hurray! There are few friends with whom you don't have to explain things but they still understand each and every bit and byte of you. She is always such a friend of mine :-)
[Saturday]
I think every gal has complaints about her hair and secret wishes for the same. I had mine too and decided to do a hair make-over. My hair was little curly and I did not like it that way. Anyhow I was not good at doing-stuff-you-need-to-do-to-have-good-hair….
When I read that there is a chance to straighten your hair permanently, I wanted to try it soon. So finally I tried it this weekend. I spent 4 hours patiently while my hair dresser applied chemicals and straighted my hair in this eloborate process. They also promised me it will be straight for long time and I only need to retouch new hair growth when needed. When I saw the final outcome, I was happy and no more curly hair. Let's see how long it stays :-)

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14 February 2008
Life -2
Time is 5:00 pm..No cold weather, jus bright and warm....Driving the car with moon roof open...Nice Breeze on the face..Ilayaraja's 80's songs playing...No red signal through out the drive back home...Enjoying thanimai...Life is beautiful
Would like to hear your beautiful moments again..Has it changed?
12 February 2008
Monsoon Diary
If you had steaming Idli with fresh filter Coffee everyday you went to school, read this book.
If you have memories of your grandmother laying vadams and kuzhvathals, you'll enjoy reading the book.
If you had seen your great grandmother grinding the batter with her hand, add it to your "books to read " list.
If you have interesting memories of travelling in sleeper class train with idly and chutney packed, reminisce it by reading this book.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book which reminded me many of my fond memories, especially with food :-)
P.S: Subha, I strongly recommend this book to you.10 February 2008
In marriage
For me , I would say without any hesitation that life after marriage is more adventurous and knowing-myself thing. I started realizing my likes & dislike, tried new things I never knew about. Also my partner changes his mind so spontaneosuly that my life is like a roller coaster- but I enjoy my ride. As my friend said "tirunelveliyil kadalai mittai sappitutu iruntha ponna ippadi pesuthu?" when I chatted with him recently. Anyway I believe "God is a perfect match maker" :-)
09 February 2008
Flash back ...
08 February 2008
My clean iPod :-)
I was quite upset about it as I knew I was going to get the "You-break-everything-I-gift-you" look from Param. After googling, we came to know a lot of folks have been through the same ordeal.In most cases just letting the ipod dry/blow dry will do the trick. Hoping to revive it, he left the ipod in front of our a/c in heat mode for 3 full days while I was still fearing the worst. After getting the royal-dry sevice for 3 days, my iPod did come back to life when he connected it to my laptop. I am so happy and worry free :-) The new iPod Nano design is quite amazing :-)
In case your iPod is soaked,here's what I can tell you
Please do not panic
Please do not turn it ON or connect it to desktop immediately.
Allow to dry (preferably blow dry) for almost a week and then try to Power it up :-)
07 February 2008
What's your romantic movie?
- Somewhere in the time
- Casablanca
- Wuthering heights
- The notebook
- Pretty woman
Have you seen any of the above and What's your thought?
Anyhow when it comes to "All time Romantic movies" for me, Its always
- Roja
- Rhythm (I liked this movie a lot)
- Mouna Ragam
- Maine Pyar Kiya
- DDLJ
- Dil To Pagal Hai
- Thullatha manamum thullum (for few songs)
What's yours?
Thoughts about Audio books
I started listening to the audio book in my car on the way to work. I finished the story in a week, but I was not able to get the finer points in the story. Rather I could only grasp the big picture of the story. The experience did not give me a chance to learn new words, improve my style of writing or improve my imagination just like a book. Maybe If I listen to it at home rather than while driving, I might able to do more but Nevertheless, Audio books are good ways to kill the boredom during everyday commute.I am a Hindu because of sculptured cones of red kumkum powder and baskets of yellow turmeric nuggets,because of garlands of flowers and pieces of broken coconut, because of the clanging of bells to announce one's arrival to God, because of the whine of the reedy nadaswaram and the beating of drums, because of the patter of bare feet against stone floors down dark corridors pierced by shafts of sunlight, becauseof the fragrance of incense, because of flames of arati lamps circling in the darkness, because of bhajans being sweetly sung, because of elephants standing around to bless, because of colorful murals telling colorful stories, because offoreheads carrying variously signified, the same word - faith. Source: Life of Pi
As for the story (Life of Pi), it is about an Indian guy who gets stranded in Pacific ocean along with a tiger,Zebra and a hyena in a life boat while he and his family were immigrating to Canada. Thats one crazy base to write a novel. Lots of Zoological and Botanical explanations throughout the book :-)
04 February 2008
The Devil wears Prada













