Few days back, I saw a discussion in Vijay TV on whether folks are happy before or after marriage. People who claimed they are happy before marriage justified they had time for themselves- things like getting up late, do things they like etc., Those who are happily married argued they are leading a disciplined life etc., I got curious and asked Param on his opinon knowing what his answer would be ;-)
For me , I would say without any hesitation that life after marriage is more adventurous and knowing-myself thing. I started realizing my likes & dislike, tried new things I never knew about. Also my partner changes his mind so spontaneosuly that my life is like a roller coaster- but I enjoy my ride. As my friend said "tirunelveliyil kadalai mittai sappitutu iruntha ponna ippadi pesuthu?" when I chatted with him recently. Anyway I believe "God is a perfect match maker" :-)
14 comments:
Good to hear that. We (my wife & I) too had/have/will have challenges adjusting/pleasing/respecting each other. But the feeling of commitment is so warmth, you feel good that you have someone who is living for/with you. We have arguments, fights but all the time it all evaporates into air.
I would love to comment on your last statement gal :)
Life goes on...doesn't it!
It becomes interesting if we ask ourselves this question - Would we repeat all this if we were to be born again? Would we marry? Marry the same person?
wow, a cool look.. did you design that?
cool template again. What car is that? White background reduces the pain in the eyes, ofcourse the pale yellow you had earlier didn't hurt too.
And I am missing the camera girl :-(
Subha
Mohan
Good to hear the same from you :-)Commitment is good ;-)
Shanthi
Would love to hear your comment soon :-)
NV sir,
Yes it does, hmm will be interesting If I have to do all things again :-)
Mohan
Found it one of the blogger templates..Param has sent you the link :-)
Subhs
I also liked the girl,but it has been a year..Also wanted to give a make over to my blog...ha, u asked what car is it...I cannot digest
;-)....Its my favi BMW :-)
Um not liking VW huh ? Send me some sites about car prices there.
I like VW as well, but BMW is my favi always :)
Hey ur blog looks cool with the new background !
Life before marriage and after...is all with respect to how the individuals are taking it.Definitely one discovers a new person in themselves after marriage
Bhu Thanks
I thought it must be a BMW just by your enthusiasm when you talk about them. Then thought may be a VW, or why not a Merc..athaan ketuten. Looking for more of your kaivannam in this template..sort of personalized for loga and her thoughts.
Hmm- love this post. I guess marriage gives you that final push to adulthood, to do as you please ( and drag the spouses along!). Yes- the feeling of commitment gives you a certainity and security, esp because we live so far away from our parents.
I always tell HD- that he is the only person who knows where I am at all times- so if I dont come home one night, he is there to panic ! Hey I think you should make this as a tag - what say?
BTW, very cool template!
Dharsini
I like the idea of tag..will read more of your ideas for this tag in your blog soon..
Subha
Merc pathi ideavey illai..athu unga collectionla thaan parkanum ;-)...will give some personal effects soon :-)
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